Cracking the Code

Understanding Your Adopted Childs Defiance, Silence & Big Emotions

Learn Why Traditional Parenting Fails for Adoptive Families— And Gain Simple Day to Day Tools (That Actually Work for Kids With Trauma)

A free, live training with world-renowned adoption and trauma expert Bryan Post to help you stop reacting in fear — and start connecting through love.

Date: Thursday May 29th

Time: 4pm PST

Location: Zoom

Live Q&A: Bring your hardest questions — Bryan & Lesli are here for you.

Cracking the Code

Understanding Your Adopted Childs Defiance, Silence & Big Emotions

Learn Why Traditional Parenting Fails for Adoptive Families— And Gain Simple Day to Day Tools (That Actually Work for Kids With Trauma)

A free, live training with world-renowned adoption and trauma expert Bryan Post to help you stop reacting in fear — and start connecting through love.

Date: Thursday May 29th

Time: 4pm PST

Location: Zoom

Live Q&A: Bring your hardest questions — Bryan & Lesli are here for you.

Show Up Live — Get a Special Gift!

When you attend live, you’ll get access to

Love in the Moment: A Parent’s Quick Guide to Defiance, Silence & Meltdowns.

This handbook includes 3 specific tools guaranteed to work under stress,

quick journal prompts and more.

What You'll Learn

Parenting a child with trauma doesn't follow the "normal" rules — because your child's brain doesn't feel safe.

In this instructional (what to do) session, you'll discover:

Understand The Real Reasons

Why your child really shuts down, explodes, or resists every single thing you say — so that you can stop taking it personally and start responding with calm, not confusion.

The Science Behind Behavior

The surprising science of stress, fear, and emotional survival — decoded for parents — so that you finally understand what's happening beneath the behavior, and how to shift it.

Calm Meltdowns Today

A simple shift you can make TODAY to calm meltdowns without bribes, punishments, or giving in — so that you feel confident, not helpless, in those high-stress moments.

Defiance Is A Signal

Why defiance is not a disorder — it's a signal — so that you stop fighting the behavior and start healing the root cause.

Create Safety & Connection

How to start creating safety, connection, and regulation in your home — even if everything else has failed — so that you can stop surviving and start feeling hope, peace, and real connection again.

This is for you if…

  • You're an adoptive parent wondering why nothing seems to "work"

  • You're tired of walking on eggshells and blaming yourself

  • You're tired of the mental, physical and emotional exhaustion

  • You want real tools that bring peace to your home, not just Pinterest advice

  • You've tried behavior charts, therapists, and still feel stuck

  • You just want to feel seen — and supported — by people who get it

This is for you if…

  • You're an adoptive parent wondering why nothing seems to "work"

  • You're tired of walking on eggshells and blaming yourself

  • You're tired of the mental, physical and emotional exhaustion

  • You want real tools that bring peace to your home, not just Pinterest advice

  • You've tried behavior charts, therapists, and still feel stuck

  • You just want to feel seen — and supported — by people who get it

Hosted by Bryan Post

Bestselling Author of From Fear to Love

Creator of the Post Stress Model

Featured on Good Morning America, The Today Show, and Adoption Now

Over 25 years supporting families raising children from tough beginnings

"You're not failing. You're parenting a child with trauma — and

that changes everything."

— Bryan Post

Why You'll Want to Be There Live

This isn't an online training you'll want to "watch later." Show up live and you'll get:

Direct Access to Bryan

Get your most pressing parenting questions answered in real time during the live Q&A

Real-time Connection

Connect with other parents who truly understand what you're facing

Live-only Bonus

Experience the shifts as they happen — the tools and insights Bryan shares are felt immediately

Come live and leave lighter.

This hour could change the way your whole week feels.

Final Word

If you've ever ended the day exhausted, questioning everything you tried…

If you've ever looked at your child and thought, "I don't know what else to do" —

You are not alone.

And you are not failing.

This is where understanding begins.

This is where real tools replace second-guessing.

This is where healing — for both of you — finally starts.

You don't have to do this on your own.

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