Our Programs
From Chaos to Connection—The Path Starts Here
At Fear to Love, we don’t hand you a binder full of theory and wish you luck. We give you a battle-tested roadmap to stop the screaming, end the chaos, and finally bring peace back into your home.
Whether you're a parent trapped in daily emotional firefights or a professional drowning in broken systems, our programs are designed to do one thing: get real healing started—fast.
Rooted in compassion, backed by decades of real-world success, and driven by lived experience with the hardest cases out there—this isn’t information. It’s transformation.
If you're ready to stop guessing and start actually helping, we’ll show you exactly how.
Our Programs
From Chaos to Connection—The Path Starts Here
At Fear to Love, we don’t hand you a binder full of theory and wish you luck. We give you a battle-tested roadmap to stop the screaming, end the chaos, and finally bring peace back into your home.
Whether you're a parent trapped in daily emotional firefights or a professional drowning in broken systems, our programs are designed to do one thing: get real healing started—fast.
Rooted in compassion, backed by decades of real-world success, and driven by lived experience with the hardest cases out there—this isn’t information. It’s transformation.
If you're ready to stop guessing and start actually helping, we’ll show you exactly how.
Explore Our Transformation Programs
No lectures. No theory. Just real transformation—for families and the professionals who serve them.
Meltdown Rescue Formula
From $47 to $7
The screaming. The shutdowns. The spiral into guilt. This isn’t just a “behavior problem”—it’s stress hijacking your family’s nervous systems.
Meltdown Rescue Formulanis your step-by-step playbook for stopping reactivity in its tracks. You’ll finally understand what’s
really driving your child’s outbursts (and your own), and how to bring calm back into your home—without yelling, threats, or shutting down.
If you're stuck in a cycle of emotional explosions and exhausted apologies, this is the lifeline you’ve been looking for.
Fear to Love Certification - Level 1
You didn’t become a professional to watch families get destroyed by a broken system. This certification gives you the
real-world skills and trauma-informed tools
you were never taught in school—but desperately need to help children with deep emotional wounds.
If you're working with adoptive or foster kids who've lived through hell, this program shows you how to help them heal—while protecting your own sanity in the process.
Adoption Inner Circle
Led by world-renowned adoption and trauma expert Bryan Post
and the Fear to Love coaching team, this community was created for adoptive parents who feel like they’re running out of answers, but can’t afford to give up.
This isn’t about getting your child to behave. It’s about helping them feel safe enough to stop fighting.
And helping you feel safe enough to stop blaming yourself.
The Connection Code
The Connection Code is a foundational Fear to Love course designed to help parents and caregivers build deeper trust, safety, and emotional connection with their children — especially those who have experienced trauma, loss, or attachment disruptions.
Through short, focused modules, Bryan Post guides you step-by-step to understand what drives challenging behaviors, how to regulate stress in yourself and your child, and how to restore peace and closeness in your relationship.
The course blends neuroscience, compassion, and practical tools that can be used immediately in everyday situations — moving families from reactive to responsive, from fear to love.
The Parenting Matrix
The Parenting Matrix is a simple, eye-opening course that helps parents finally understand why their child’s behavior makes sense — and what to do in the moments that feel overwhelming. Based on decades of trauma-informed work, this course guides you out of frustration and into clarity using calm, compassionate, brain-based tools.
Inside the Parenting Matrix™, parents learn how stress, fear, and past experiences shape a child’s reactions — and how small shifts in connection can create big transformations. The course takes complex neuroscience and turns it into easy, real-world strategies you can use the same day.
By the end, parents walk away with a completely different way of seeing their child — not as “defiant” or “disrespectful,” but as overwhelmed, stressed, and needing connection first. Most importantly, you learn exactly how to respond in ways that lower stress, increase safety, and build long-term trust.
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